Wednesday, February 1, 2012

3 miracles--

Hellooo!!

So God is so good- Sunday at youth group we witnessed 3 miracles!!

It all started out as a normal youth group- but when I look outside, there is a police officer in our church ( he turned out to be Pete, our youth pastor's brother in law). Then I look further down the corridor and see a bunch of Mennonite high school guys and girls. Ryan Evan ( a youth staff ) then pulled me aside and told me that these kids are from North Carolina and were in Charlottesville for a youth retreat. They were on their way home in a 15 passenger van and their driver ( who was the dad of 3 of the 12 kids inside ) had a heart attack and hit the guardrail on the 288 bridge, and flew off the bridge. The van behind following them behind (also with the group ) said he saw the van fly off the bridge and had no idea what to expect when he looked over to see if he could see them.

Hans ( Pete's brother in law ) was the first one to the scene. Hans is a believer and he went in to action. Miracle #1- NONE OF THE KIDS WERE HURT. They hit a guardrail, flew off a bridge and did not get even a scratch!!! Hans said that any further right they would have ended up in the James River- any further left and they would have ended up in a swamp. But they landed on soft ground between the swamp and the river.

Well- unfortunately the dad was pronounced dead at the scene and the mom (who was in the passenger seat) was in serious condition and sent to MCV. So, Hans, knowing that they were only minutes from Hope- got the Hope shuttle bus and got all of the kids to Hope. Meanwhile- we are having a full blown youth group. There were about 50-75 kids in that building last night- Andrew was Manning one door to ensure that no one got out of the room and someone else was at the other door doing the same, to ensure privacy for the kids. After a few minutes I asked them if they were hungry and told them that Andrew and I would go get them food, but then in true God fashion Ryan and Jennifer Mitchell ( another youth staff person ) remembered that we had bought 6 pizzas and tons of soda for the winning group of a scavenger hunt we had the previous weekend. So we supplied them with Pizza and drinks ( along with chips, pretzels, cookies and chocolate bars we had found). And I took them to the prayer room so they could totally be separated from everyone else and have time to go through what happened together.

During all of the chaos Nicole and Wes Mullins ( Other youth Staff ) took the 3 children of the driver and mom to the hospital to see their parents.

While they were in the prayer room- since Nicole had left, Cody took over youth group. Instead of a lesson he broke everyone up into small groups and we prayed. We prayed for the family, for the dad and mom for the children, and we were all praying hard and with our whole hearts- Miracle #2- During the praying, Hans told Cody that some how the dad was going in and out of consciousness!!!! Once pronounced DEAD at the scene, and an hour later he is coming in and out of consciousness???? Really? WOW - God is SO good. So Cody then tells everyone to pray again- Pray hard, pray in anyway you need to, stand up, sit down, raise your hands, dance do whatever you feel like you need to do, but lets really pray for a miracle that he will stay alive. After about 5 minutes of prayer Miracle #3 comes in to play-- HANS ANNOUNCES THAT THE DAD IS ALIVE. REALLY GOD??? You are SO SO SO GOOD!!!!!

Prayer works!! He was DEAD - now he is ALIVE. Prayer really really really works!!!

Also- Hans decided to talk to the youth group to inform them of what was going on- during this time the tow truck came to Hope with the wrecked 15 passenger van. Jennifer Mitchell and I went out fast with boxes to get all of their belongings out of the van so that the kids didn't have to see the damage done. Things were wet and just thrown everywhere. But I noticed something really cool- the only REAL damage to the car was to the passenger side. But it looked like he had hit a pole ( in reality it was the guardrail ) but there was no real sign that it FLEW OFF A BRIDGE!! It's like God took the van in mid air and gently placed it down on the ground!!! I mean COME ON that is AWESOME!!!

So, all of the youth kids left to go home- and a few drivers from NC came up to pick up the remaining kids. We baked cookies and made coffee for them all. And Hans told us some more interesting facts about this day.

#1- He was not supposed to work last night-
#2- He said that it was crazy how none of the kids were hurt
#3- He told us that during the heart attack the dad somehow turned the wheel left and that is what saved them.

God is SO SO good.

One more thing about this event- Wes Mullins mom has a carriage house, that she is letting the family stay in- all 13 of them ( I guess some of them were either in a different van or drove up from NC).

I am CERTAIN God let us be a part of a few miracles last night. I feel so honored.
I wanted to share this with you to show you that God does still work in miracles in today's time- we just have to recognize them as miracles and praise God for HIS work....Prayer works.



As of right now- the dad is still alive, but struggling alot and in critical condition- so it is CRITICAL that we keep praying for him and this amazing famiy!! The mom is supposed to have gotten surgery I THINK either today or tomorrow, so also pray for her recovery!!



Thursday, December 8, 2011

Jingle Jam update...




THOUGHTS?

Jingle Jam...

So, for our churches Jingle Jam event this Saturday I am making a life size Candy Land board for the kids to walk on. So far I am progessing slowing over the past 2 days, but here is what I have so far.


ALOT of work still to do, but I'll update on the progess......

Sunday, September 11, 2011

BIG NEWS

I AM GETTING MARRIED!!!!!

Not only that, but it's to the man I have always dreamed of marrying since I was about 12. That's right, it's one of THOSE stories!! But it is MY WONDERFUL story.

Andrew proposed to me around 7PM on Friday, September 9, 2011. It was at the beach, during sunset. It was PERFECT. Here is a little run down on how it all happened....

     We had the PERFECT day. We both took off work and headed to the beach. It was a BEAUTIFUL/SUNNY day and the waves were HUGE!! Andrew headed out to surf ( and got barreled by a couple waves!) and I snapped some photos and read a bunch. We headed in for a late lunch/early dinner and cooked up some fish we had picked up from our favorite local fish market. Then Andrew asked if I wanted to go for a walk on the beach before we headed home, and so off we went.

    During our stroll down the beach Andrew was snapping photos of really random stuff, but I really didnt think anything of it, we kept on walkin'. The tide was high and the sand was really hard to walk on, and we were both feelin' some pain in our feet so I told him we should turn around, but Andrew was determined!! We headed straight for our usual spot where we like to set up the camera on timer and take a few pictures of ourselves acting silly.

     We took one of ourselves standing infront of the ocean, and then Andrew went to check it out and "readjust" the lense. Well, it felt like he was up there for forever, while I was standing there solo twirling around or asking Andrew what was taking so long. After about a grand total of about 45 seconds of Andrew fiddling around with the lense bag, he clicked the button and came running down to me. I went to put my arm around him to take the picture, and the next thing I knew he was down on one knee with a ring box wide open, with the most beautiful ring I have ever seen!! And it was then and there that he asked me to marry him. After total shock and mis-belief that I was not dreaming, I said YES!!!  So WE ARE GETTING MARRIED!!! I will soon be Jessica VanFossen Parham!!! I CAN'T WAIT!!!


Here is what the night looked like....

This was our amazing view....

This is me in utter shock!! And Andrew asking me the question I have always wanted to hear from him!!




 This is me and my future husband... I am the most BLESSED woman in the world!!!!!!



And these are of my Ring!!!




Thursday, August 11, 2011

Be real with God.

Every morning I sit down with my cup of coffee and I read. Lately my readings have taken me to Psalms. I have fallen inlove with them. Maybe it is my place in life that is allowing me to relate on a very minut scale to David or maybe God is softening my heart and giving me more understanding. But whatever it is I am lovin' it.

This mornings Psalm is Psalm 13. I have such great respect for this particular Psalm because it is raw and honest. Verses 1-4 are honest cries and pleas to the Lord.

1 How long, LORD? Will you forget me forever?
   How long will you hide your face from me? 


2 How long must I wrestle with my thoughts
   and day after day have sorrow in my heart?
   How long will my enemy triumph over me?



 3 Look on me and answer, LORD my God.
   Give light to my eyes, or I will sleep in death, 


4 and my enemy will say, “I have overcome him,” 
   and my foes will rejoice when I fall. 


Look at those lines!!! How many times do we FEEL those emotions. How many days do we wrestle with ourselves and feel totally demolished by life and those around us? If you are anything like me, it is sometimes on a daily basis ( depending on the depth of the situations ). BUT how often do we HONESTLY cry out to God in the way? David throws out the fancy "holy words" and is REAL with God. He is telling him that he feels like God has forgotten him. Left him to wrestle with himself and his thorughts. He is pleading with God to LOOK ON HIM AND ANSWER HIM!! He feels defeated.


But then look at verses 5-6 :


5 But I trust in your unfailing love;
   my heart rejoices in your salvation. 
6 I will sing the LORD’s praise,
   for he has been good to me.



David knows no matter what GOD IS GOOD. God is the one that you put ALL your trust in. God is good even in the bad. I think this is where my lesson from David comes in. I usually have no issue telling God exacly how I feel ( even though he knows it-even If I am lying to myself ). But I need to always rememeber that EVEN IN THE BAD TIMES, God is good. He may allow bad things to happen, but he is still good.